Comments on: After Murder: Kid Trauma http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/after-murder-kid-trauma/ Advice for Dying and Death - When Sympathy Isnt Enough Sun, 12 Feb 2012 06:37:25 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Grief Counseling http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/after-murder-kid-trauma/comment-page-1/#comment-6927 Grief Counseling Sat, 16 May 2009 23:41:00 +0000 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/?p=601#comment-6927 Great info, i appreciate your After Murder: Kid Trauma | The Checkout Line blog and your way of writing and knowledge sharing. [WORDPRESS HASHCASH] The poster sent us '0 which is not a hashcash value. Great info, i appreciate your After Murder: Kid Trauma | The Checkout Line blog and your way of writing and knowledge sharing.

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]]> By: Katrina, Stockholm http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/after-murder-kid-trauma/comment-page-1/#comment-5354 Katrina, Stockholm Thu, 30 Apr 2009 16:41:31 +0000 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/?p=601#comment-5354 I see the points raised by Sioban about the uselessness of the education and welfare authorities and then the heartlessness of Jean, and ask if this is all typical of America? I see the points raised by Sioban about the uselessness of the education and welfare authorities and then the heartlessness of Jean, and ask if this is all typical of America?

]]> By: James http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/after-murder-kid-trauma/comment-page-1/#comment-5347 James Thu, 30 Apr 2009 14:25:19 +0000 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/?p=601#comment-5347 My opinion: The safety of the child is paramount, and there are some things which can't be easily explained to a 9 year old. The mother should just tell her daughter she must trust her mother's judgment, that the situation is "temporary" and that when she is older her reasons will be explained. My opinion: The safety of the child is paramount, and there are some things which can’t be easily explained to a 9 year old. The mother should just tell her daughter she must trust her mother’s judgment, that the situation is “temporary” and that when she is older her reasons will be explained.

]]> By: Colin http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/after-murder-kid-trauma/comment-page-1/#comment-5344 Colin Thu, 30 Apr 2009 13:30:19 +0000 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/?p=601#comment-5344 Judy, how can you give a platform to a bigot like Jean in Ohio? Divorce is common and strikes every family, it seems like. What exactly is she saying? That a single mom deserved to be murdered? That the child needs no support? Judy, how can you give a platform to a bigot like Jean in Ohio? Divorce is common and strikes every family, it seems like. What exactly is she saying? That a single mom deserved to be murdered? That the child needs no support?

]]> By: Jean in Ohio http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/after-murder-kid-trauma/comment-page-1/#comment-5333 Jean in Ohio Thu, 30 Apr 2009 10:21:48 +0000 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/?p=601#comment-5333 Wholesome families should stick together. Let all the newfangled families, so called single mothers, "same sex marriages" and who knows what will be next, suffer the consequences of their actions. I am sorry if i sound callous, but Peggy's question tells us everything we need to know abou the outcome of selfish choices. Wholesome families should stick together. Let all the newfangled families, so called single mothers, “same sex marriages” and who knows what will be next, suffer the consequences of their actions. I am sorry if i sound callous, but Peggy’s question tells us everything we need to know abou the outcome of selfish choices.

]]> By: Drew http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/after-murder-kid-trauma/comment-page-1/#comment-5325 Drew Thu, 30 Apr 2009 08:14:00 +0000 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/?p=601#comment-5325 If Peggy had a heart, she would welcome the child into her own home until the issues are resolved. If Peggy had a heart, she would welcome the child into her own home until the issues are resolved.

]]> By: Sioban http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/after-murder-kid-trauma/comment-page-1/#comment-5324 Sioban Thu, 30 Apr 2009 08:12:59 +0000 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/?p=601#comment-5324 This is a tough story, as you say, and it has others aspects which are problematic. Peggy doesn't say a word about whether or not the school is doing anything at all about this. I'll bet all the kids in the class are all imagining what would happen if their mother died in the same way. No counseling? No grief therapy? No advice on how to handle the bereaved child's needs? If the father is indeed a prime suspect, why did authorities allow him to move in with his child? Has the whole world gone crazy?? This is a tough story, as you say, and it has others aspects which are problematic. Peggy doesn’t say a word about whether or not the school is doing anything at all about this. I’ll bet all the kids in the class are all imagining what would happen if their mother died in the same way. No counseling? No grief therapy? No advice on how to handle the bereaved child’s needs? If the father is indeed a prime suspect, why did authorities allow him to move in with his child? Has the whole world gone crazy??

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