http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/death-of-2-children-death-of-conversation/ Advice for Dying and Death - When Sympathy Isnt Enough Fri, 10 Sep 2010 12:51:00 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/death-of-2-children-death-of-conversation/comment-page-1/#comment-10671 Mervyn Thu, 25 Jun 2009 18:22:13 +0000 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/?p=726#comment-10671 The sister sees Karinna's desire to talk about her own issues as a rejection of her pain and an unwillingness to share. If Karinna keeps at it, the sister will feel that her needs are not being dealt with. Since this would be intolerable, she might drop her sister completely and find other people whom she will see as more sympathetic. What I am trying to say is that if karinna is not careful, she might soon not have any relationship left with her sister The sister sees Karinna’s desire to talk about her own issues as a rejection of her pain and an unwillingness to share. If Karinna keeps at it, the sister will feel that her needs are not being dealt with. Since this would be intolerable, she might drop her sister completely and find other people whom she will see as more sympathetic. What I am trying to say is that if karinna is not careful, she might soon not have any relationship left with her sister

]]> http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/death-of-2-children-death-of-conversation/comment-page-1/#comment-10666 Joy Thu, 25 Jun 2009 17:33:55 +0000 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/?p=726#comment-10666 The best thing Karinna can do for her sister is to help her find a support group. The best thing Karinna can do for her sister is to help her find a support group.

]]> http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/death-of-2-children-death-of-conversation/comment-page-1/#comment-10665 Ida Thu, 25 Jun 2009 17:32:47 +0000 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/?p=726#comment-10665 Karinna obviously has no children if she does not understand that losing a child is not the same as losing a job, or a husband. Those can be replaced. Karinna obviously has no children if she does not understand that losing a child is not the same as losing a job, or a husband. Those can be replaced.

]]> http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/death-of-2-children-death-of-conversation/comment-page-1/#comment-10662 Jeanne Frye, RN, CHPN Thu, 25 Jun 2009 16:17:33 +0000 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/?p=726#comment-10662 Thank you for that post, Judy. I am not going to complain about anything all day. My problems are so small compared to those in the post. Thank you for that post, Judy. I am not going to complain about anything all day. My problems are so small compared to those in the post.

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