http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/do-i-have-to-pretend-i-liked-her/ Advice for Dying and Death - When Sympathy Isnt Enough Fri, 18 May 2012 10:43:22 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/do-i-have-to-pretend-i-liked-her/comment-page-1/#comment-16764 Gerri C Wed, 30 Sep 2009 11:43:39 +0000 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/?p=890#comment-16764 Reggie is obviously trying to replace Mother Teresa, up there with the angels. How disgusting to want to to trash a recently deceased wife! I've seen some pretty crude and hurtful questions on CheckoutLine, but this one wins, hands down. Reggie is obviously trying to replace Mother Teresa, up there with the angels. How disgusting to want to to trash a recently deceased wife! I’ve seen some pretty crude and hurtful questions on CheckoutLine, but this one wins, hands down.

]]> http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/do-i-have-to-pretend-i-liked-her/comment-page-1/#comment-16758 Mary Linn Wed, 30 Sep 2009 08:38:32 +0000 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/?p=890#comment-16758 Judy, how many times need I tell you that you need to get your facts before you can answer questions? In this case, what does "just" mean? if the sister in law died a week or even a month ago, this is not the time to say anything. But if its been some months and the brother is starting to date again, what is wrong with very subtle comments, something like: "It will be difficult to find someone like Stingy again, I wonnder what personality traits you will look for this time?" That will get him to think and understand. Judy, how many times need I tell you that you need to get your facts before you can answer questions? In this case, what does “just” mean? if the sister in law died a week or even a month ago, this is not the time to say anything. But if its been some months and the brother is starting to date again, what is wrong with very subtle comments, something like: “It will be difficult to find someone like Stingy again, I wonnder what personality traits you will look for this time?” That will get him to think and understand.

]]> http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/do-i-have-to-pretend-i-liked-her/comment-page-1/#comment-16757 Spotty Wed, 30 Sep 2009 08:29:17 +0000 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/?p=890#comment-16757 If my sister-in-law was as mean-spirited, inconsiderate, selfish and insensitive as Reggie appears to be, life would be intolerable. You get what you give. If my sister-in-law was as mean-spirited, inconsiderate, selfish and insensitive as Reggie appears to be, life would be intolerable. You get what you give.

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