http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/sex-guilt-and-lung-cancer/ Advice for Dying and Death - When Sympathy Isnt Enough Sun, 12 Feb 2012 06:56:57 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/sex-guilt-and-lung-cancer/comment-page-1/#comment-149 Anna Wed, 22 Oct 2008 22:53:49 +0000 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/wordpress/advice/sex-guilt-and-lung-cancer/#comment-149 Seems to me like it is not only your friend who needs closure, but you do too. Talk to her, for her sake but also for yours. Seems to me like it is not only your friend who needs closure, but you do too. Talk to her, for her sake but also for yours.

]]> http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/sex-guilt-and-lung-cancer/comment-page-1/#comment-148 Sigrun Wed, 22 Oct 2008 12:16:16 +0000 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/wordpress/advice/sex-guilt-and-lung-cancer/#comment-148 Your advice is so right. I had nearly the same problem with a friend who was dying and wanted to revisit an ugly event in our past, when she left a party with my long time boyfriend. She got back to me six months ago with an Email, saying she wanted to talk about it; I wrote her back that "bygones will be bygones", and that I would like to see her again. We did, and with that past behind us, had no problem renewing our friendship, which lasted until she passed away. Sigrun Your advice is so right. I had nearly the same problem with a friend who was dying and wanted to revisit an ugly event in our past, when she left a party with my long time boyfriend. She got back to me six months ago with an Email, saying she wanted to talk about it; I wrote her back that “bygones will be bygones”, and that I would like to see her again. We did, and with that past behind us, had no problem renewing our friendship, which lasted until she passed away.
Sigrun

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