Comments on: What Do I Say To My Ex — And When?

By: Jeanne Frye, RN, CHPN

Jeanne Frye, RN, CHPN — Fri, 15 May 2009 18:57:49 +0000

Candee, you bring up a good point!!

By: Karl

Karl — Tue, 12 May 2009 12:28:37 +0000

The ex-husband is talking about reuniting. If this is true then Rosa needs to share with him her medical situation, but without making it the center of their current friendship. Rosa doesn’t sound as though she wants to renew the solid, permanent relationship she used to have. But obviously she enjoys the company of her ex. He sounds like he misses her as well (been there myself…). HOWEVER missing her is not the same as caring for her. I haven’t read it, but maybe ELizabeth Edwards’ book would be something for Rosa to read.

By: Candee

Candee — Tue, 12 May 2009 08:11:54 +0000

Here I go again: The universe is providing Rosa’s ex with a golden chance to remedy what he wronged. And as for Rosa: she at last has been given a unique opportunity to play a role in creating good on the heels of evil, she should embrace it and allow him to rise to his spiritual potential.

By: Mary Linn

Mary Linn — Tue, 12 May 2009 08:07:24 +0000

It’s just impossible to answer Rosa’s question without knowing if he was around during the previous medical procedures and how he acted back then.

By: Lara

Lara — Tue, 12 May 2009 08:02:41 +0000

Rosa should treat her ex as she would any current boyfriend, and ignore the baggage. It seems to me like they are both on a new page. For both their sakes, she should keep it that way.