http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/whats-the-best-way-to-help-a-widow-who-had-the-perfect-husband/ Advice for Dying and Death - When Sympathy Isnt Enough Tue, 22 May 2012 07:18:54 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/whats-the-best-way-to-help-a-widow-who-had-the-perfect-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-237 jillian Wed, 19 Nov 2008 14:22:46 +0000 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/wordpress/advice/whats-the-best-way-to-help-a-widow-who-had-the-perfect-husband/#comment-237 Judy's advice is fine, as far as it goes... But why did she even need to give it? This woman is your friend and has been for a long time. The three of you should drop her a note, asking her just what you asked Judy. If she is as smart as she sounds, she'll be able to define her needs. Judy’s advice is fine, as far as it goes… But why did she even need to give it? This woman is your friend and has been for a long time. The three of you should drop her a note, asking her just what you asked Judy. If she is as smart as she sounds, she’ll be able to define her needs.

]]> http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/whats-the-best-way-to-help-a-widow-who-had-the-perfect-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-236 Ron Wed, 19 Nov 2008 14:21:45 +0000 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/wordpress/advice/whats-the-best-way-to-help-a-widow-who-had-the-perfect-husband/#comment-236 I like the idea of a perfect husband -- this is one problem I'm not going to email my wife!! Seriously though, if everyone in this "picture" is so close and loving, you'd think that supposedly good friends would know what to do for one another if there's a death. Without needing to write in to some advice column online. Am I right or what? I like the idea of a perfect husband — this is one problem I’m not going to email my wife!! Seriously though, if everyone in this “picture” is so close and loving, you’d think that supposedly good friends would know what to do for one another if there’s a death. Without needing to write in to some advice column online. Am I right or what?

]]> http://www.thecheckoutline.org/advice/whats-the-best-way-to-help-a-widow-who-had-the-perfect-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-235 hella Wed, 19 Nov 2008 14:16:01 +0000 http://www.thecheckoutline.org/wordpress/advice/whats-the-best-way-to-help-a-widow-who-had-the-perfect-husband/#comment-235 You probably don't want to phone too often. She needs as much quality time with her kids as possible, especially since she's working. Send her a text message every few days,with a little bright news. Say stuff like you're sitting in a coffee shop she knows and likes and that you're thinking of her. When she's up to it, she'll get in touch. You probably don’t want to phone too often. She needs as much quality time with her kids as possible, especially since she’s working. Send her a text message every few days,with a little bright news. Say stuff like you’re sitting in a coffee shop she knows and likes and that you’re thinking of her. When she’s up to it, she’ll get in touch.

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