• Advice

    Posted on February 12th, 2010

    Written by Judy

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    9/11: It’s Not Going to Get Any Better!

    Dear Judy,
    I’m writing because someone I loved very much died on 9/11. It wasn’t a husband or anyone I can openly acknowledge because he was married.
    Nonetheless, there are plenty of people who knew about us and what we meant to each other. For years I’ve belong to a book club, and a number of its members [...]

  • Advice

    Posted on October 1st, 2009

    Written by Judy

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    The Know-It-All Sister

    Dear Judy,
    I’m pretty sure you won’t be able to help out, but here goes: A very good friend in our group lost a brother during 9/11. It was tragic and we all stood by her during that awful time and well after.
    The problem is now that the years have passed she’s become a terrorism expert. [...]

  • Advice

    Posted on September 15th, 2008

    Written by Judy

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    9/11 Bore

    Dear Judy,
    My colleague at work lost a loved one during 9/11 — lots of publicity, TV and newspaper coverage as you can imagine, and all of us commiserated and felt lousy for this person. I’m not going to go into too many details about who this person is, not even the gender or age of the deceased, for obvious reasons.
    Well [...]