Why Do My Friends Think I’m Callous?

Dear Judy,
My sister-in-law, aged 50, was diagnosed with adenocarcinoma 8 weeks ago, and now has just a few days to live. My brother and I love our own — and each other’s – children very much, but we’re just not that plugged into each other’s life. Also, we live on opposite coasts.
I’d fly over there in [...]