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    Posted on March 24th, 2010

    Written by Judy

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    What If His Death Makes Me Happy?

    Dear Judy,
    Years ago I went with a guy who was really obnoxious, and of course I was crazy about him. We lived together only 5 months. Then basically he walked out on me, and also by the way left me to pay his share of the rent (I had co-signed the lease, idiotically). He moved [...]

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    Posted on October 14th, 2009

    Written by Judy

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    Dying Friend: Should I Alert the Old Boyfriend?

    Dear Judy,
    My best friend is dying (breast cancer). I happen to know she still cares for an old boyfriend. When they broke up, he married someone else. Now he’s divorced.
    My question: Should I tell him about the situation? Should I get them together now? My friend is pretty sick and obviously doesn’t look great, but [...]

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    Posted on March 9th, 2009

    Written by Judy

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    Forgiveness — Hah!!

    Dear Judy.
    You won’t believe this, I know. But 10 years ago my best friend in the world (who was married!!)  made off with my boyfriend.
    I don’t want to say too much about him. Obviously, he was a jerk. And I was, as everyone I know says, better off without him. But what about my dear [...]