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    Posted on April 9th, 2010

    Written by Judy

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    Dead Sister: I’m At Fault!

    Dear Judy,
    My sister died last winter. She had some alcohol in her blood, and it turns out she was driving too fast and she hit a tree. It was also dark, so maybe she simply couldn’t see and the wine she drank over dinner had nothing to do with the accident.
    I don’t know.
    My problem is, [...]

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    Posted on December 9th, 2009

    Written by Judy

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    Don’t I Have a Right to Be Mad?

    Dear Judy,
    8 years ago I lost both my mother and my beloved brother simultaneously in a car crash, my mother who had bad vision at the wheel.
    At the time I got a lot of sympathy, especially from a close friend. Now her live-in lover died (lung cancer) and she keeps saying stuff like, “I realize [...]

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    Posted on April 10th, 2009

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    A Written Eulogy: The Whole Truth?

    Dear Judy,
    A close friend died some months ago. Let’s put it this way: he was no saint. We’d been buddies in high school and reconnected in our 20’s. He drank a fair bit, not 2 % milk. He had a wife, but you’d never know it if you met him inĀ  a bar or a [...]