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    Posted on April 6th, 2010

    Written by Judy

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    Helping Out Mother: Why Me?

    Dear Judy,
    Our mother remarried years ago. She and her 2nd husband are now both 78, both with coronary issues. My mother had a heart attack last year.
    I am 40, and not married, and I help out as much as I can. My older brother doesn’t do a damn thing. He says he has “a demanding [...]

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    Posted on February 11th, 2009

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    Post-Mortem STD: Do I Have To Tell?

    Dear Judy,
    I’m not going to write this well because I’m embarrassed. My brother died recently. They did an autopsy because there was stuff in his life that might have indicated he didn’t die a “natural” death. Well he did. He had bad coronary disease, it turns out.
    He also had a sexually transmitted disease when he [...]