• Advice

    Posted on December 2nd, 2009

    Written by Judy

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    Cremation Quarrel: How Can I Win?

    Dear Judy,
       My live-in partner and I are having the most ridiculous ongoing quarrel, and maybe you can help. He says he’ll read what you have to say, anyway.
        The issue: When I die I want to be cremated (He was born Baptist, and wants all the costly hideious trimmings including embalming).
       My friend says [...]

  • Blog

    Posted on May 28th, 2009

    Written by Judy

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    Thinking Outside the Box

       Do you have to buy a hideous coffin for a dead relative? Or for that matter any coffin?
    “The funeral industry does a great job of having you believe their requirements are the same as state laws,” my friend Jane Hillhouse, the founder of both Colorful Coffins and Final Footprints (www.finalfootprints.com ) tells me. “The only requirement [...]

  • Advice

    Posted on August 29th, 2008

    Written by Judy

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    Putting the Fun in Funerals

    Dear Judy,
    Eight years ago my wife died, leaving me with a son, who is now 14. At the time, I weighed the pros and cons (I even went to a shrink for advice on the subject), and in the end I decided my son should be spared his mother’s funeral. Bad enough he lost her, [...]