• Advice

    Posted on November 13th, 2009

    Written by Judy

    Tags

    , ,

    Do I Have to Pay Back the Money?

    Dear Judy,
    Around 10 months ago, I totaled my car. I was given enough to settle what I owed on that car, and also given $4,000 towards a new car — my grandmother did all this for me, because I couldn’t even qualify for a loan at the time. The total came to $20,000.
    She told me [...]

  • Advice

    Posted on March 9th, 2009

    Written by Judy

    Tags

    , ,

    Forgiveness — Hah!!

    Dear Judy.
    You won’t believe this, I know. But 10 years ago my best friend in the world (who was married!!)  made off with my boyfriend.
    I don’t want to say too much about him. Obviously, he was a jerk. And I was, as everyone I know says, better off without him. But what about my dear [...]

  • Advice

    Posted on October 22nd, 2008

    Written by Judy

    Tags

    , , , ,

    Sex, Guilt and Lung Cancer

    Dear Judy,
    A longtime friend is has Stage III lung cancer  — and evidently lots of guilt about what she did to my romantic life some years ago. It wasn’t the worst thing anyone’s done to me. She started dating the love of my life, but only after he’d already dumped me.
    In fact about 2 months after he dumped [...]