• Advice

    Posted on February 25th, 2010

    Written by Judy

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    What Can I Do About My Dad?

    Dear Judy,
    I am 19 and I live with my father. His father died suddenly 1 month ago from heart problems.
    My Dad drives to see his Mom every weekend, it’s a 2-hour drive each way! He is very overweight and suffers from insomnia and depression (he decided not to take any mood elevators lately…) He’s stressed all [...]

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    Posted on April 7th, 2009

    Written by Judy

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    Do I Have To Abide By My Mother’s Wishes?

    Dear Judy,
    I’m sure you don’t get too many emails like this. Our mother died on Sunday, supposedly of emphysema and heart disease, but I think of malice. We are burying her this week. She always said she wanted me, her only daughter to give the eulogy. I don’t know what to say that would be [...]

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    Posted on October 20th, 2008

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    Why Is My Mother-In-Law is Getting Spooky?

    Dear Judy,
    In the last 18 months, my mother-in-law has lost her husband, an older brother, and a son who was killed in a car crash. I can’t say that the deaths of the first two — my father-in-law and my husband’s uncle — were total tragedies. They were pretty old and both had been sick for [...]