Do I Have to Care for Alzheimer’s Father-in-Law?

Dear Judy,
I’m having a hard time dealing with my father-in-law who has Alzheimer’s, no longer in the beginning stage.  His health habits are disgusting, you can smell him a mile off. And he’s often irrationally angry at me.
Now my husband wants him to come with with us?
What do I do?
MaryAnn

Dear Mary Ann,
I know I’m going [...]