• Advice

    Posted on March 16th, 2009

    Written by Judy

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    My Friends are Deserting Me! Why?

    Dear Judy,
    I don’t want to go into details (too depressing) but I am seriously ill. Very seriously.  Ever since I revealed the news to a number of friends, they’ve been avoiding me. Not all my friends, but a good number. It’s like I’m contagious — which I am not.
    Don’t these friends realize I need them [...]

  • Advice

    Posted on July 2nd, 2008

    Written by Judy

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    Sick to Death of Approaching Death

    Dear Judy,
    At the risk of sounding completely selfish, I can’t stand it any more. Everyone around me seems to be dying, and I just don’t want to deal with it (or them) any more.
     In case you think I’m exaggerating or just crazy, it’s pretty much literally true: my mother-in-law who has Alzheimers has just months to [...]