• Advice

    Posted on January 5th, 2010

    Written by Judy

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    Wisdom From Jeanne Frye, Hospice RN

    Dear Judy,
    I have to comment on the drugs/no drugs issue.
    I hear these disputes all the time from lay people as well as medical folks. Here’s my take on the matter:
    Treat the symptoms that appear – pain, shortness of breath — with the smallest amount of medication that will do the job! No more, no less.
    Dying is [...]

  • Advice

    Posted on November 25th, 2009

    Written by Judy

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    From Jeanne Frye, An Extraordinary Hospice Nurse

    Dear Judy,
    I was asked to fill in to care for a woman with colon cancer a few days ago. She is only in her 40’s which makes it that much harder.
    I met her in her living room, sitting in a recliner. She lives alone but has friends and neighbors who take turns being with her 
    (OK — [...]

  • Blog

    Posted on June 11th, 2009

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    How To Deliver the Bad News?

    Dear Readers:
    Jeanne Frye is a longtime hospice nurse of uncommon experience, intelligence and compassion. About 40 times in the past year, readers have emailed me, asking how to deliver the bad news — word of impending death —  to someone they love. Here’s Jeanne’s brilliant and thoughtful reply:
    “No one wants to be the bearer of bad [...]