• Advice

    Posted on December 30th, 2008

    Written by Judy

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    My Friend or My Livelihood?

    Dear Judy,
    My best friend of 20 years is dying of cancer, and I am very upset.  But unfortunately a quite selfish issue has clased with my friend’s untimely sickness.
    My friend wants me by his side during his last months, and I have been there regularly. But due to the economy — and perhaps my own [...]

  • Advice

    Posted on September 4th, 2008

    Written by Judy

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    Battling Breast Cancer and My Mortgage

    Dear Judy,
    I have Stage IV ovarian cancer, and my doctor told me I have one year left. I also have a mortgage, and I can’t imagine being able to work much longer. Do I notify my mortgage company of this fact? And if I don’t, what is the best way to put them off as [...]