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    Posted on January 29th, 2009

    Written by Judy

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    Kidney Cancer: Do I Have To Tell Her She’s Dying?

    Dear Judy,
    I noticed that yesterday you had a question from a friend of a woman with kidney infection and liver failure. I have a friend with kidney cancer. She’s my best friend.
    I think, like the friend of your email correspondent yesterday, that my friend too is refusing to acknowledge defeat. Which in her case means [...]

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    Posted on January 7th, 2009

    Written by Judy

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    The Mother of My Child Has Kidney Cancer

    Dear Judy,
    I’m sure you won’t know what to do about my question, but I thought I’d give it a shot anyway. Five years ago, while I was between wives, a woman I knew asked me essentially to be a sperm donor. Meaning I slept with her a few times, she got pregnant as planned, and she [...]