• Advice

    Posted on May 4th, 2010

    Written by Judy

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    Do I Lie to My Sister?

    Dear Judy,
    What do I do about a dying sister who refuses to admit she’s dying? She has liver cancer which has spread all over (in her lungs too now…), but she keeps planning trips, cruises.
    Sometimes she says, “When I get well, we’re going to…” and then she expects me to say yes, I am going [...]

  • Advice

    Posted on January 14th, 2010

    Written by Judy

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    Don’t Want to Know!

    Dear Judy,
    Maybe this seems petty compared to some of the emails you get. But I go to the same gym every day at 8 AM — well every weekday anyway. And I always see almost all the same people every day, all of us getting pumped before we go off to work. And we always [...]