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    Posted on March 8th, 2010

    Written by Judy

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    Criminal Father: Lung and Colon Cancer

    Dear Judy,
    I am newly married and have a 15-year-old stepdaughter. Her biological father is dying of lung and colon cancer.
    I want to comfort both my stepdaughter and my wife. My stepdaughter feels her father no longer cares about her, and about a year ago told her Mom, “I wish he would die.”  Then 2 weeks [...]

  • Advice

    Posted on September 16th, 2009

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    Can I Tell the Truth About the Deceased?

    Dear Judy,
    I’m writing from the Midwest: we have a local politician, a friend of the family, who upped and died. I won’t say what his title was, but he was pretty important in our city.
    He was also, and I know this for a fact, a child-molester. Or really a teen-molester. I used to babysit for [...]