• Advice

    Posted on May 14th, 2009

    Written by Judy

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    Second Opinion Hell

    Dear Judy,
    My sister who is just 29 has breast cancer, and her oncologist is recommending not just chemo, but also that her healthy breast be removed. He says the type of cancer she has is very aggressive, and she will likely die of breast cancer if she doesn’t do as he says. (He says in [...]

  • Advice

    Posted on August 11th, 2008

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    Should I Tell My Brother He’s Dying?

    Dear Judy,
    My brother is a terminally ill cancer victim.  To date no one has actually told him his condition is terminal, so he believes that after therapy he will be going home, and perhaps eventually back to work.
    Is it unfair to my brother that no one has given him the bad news? Is it doing [...]