• Advice

    Posted on March 16th, 2010

    Written by Judy

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    Horrified By New Wife

    Dear Judy,
    My daughter died of breast cancer which spread everywhere. That was 3 years ago. There are 4 kids, my grandchildren, and the oldest is 12. It’s all very tragic, and I’m still not recovered really. Every time I see the eldest, who is beautiful with light brown hair, I see my own daughter’s face.
    My even [...]

  • Advice

    Posted on March 5th, 2010

    Written by Judy

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    He Married a Person Totally Unlike My Mother!

    Dear Judy,
    I am 31. My mother died 4 years ago at age 60, and it came as a surprise even though she’d had health problems including breast cancer. We thought that was over. It wasn’t.
    A year ago, just 3 years after my mother’s death, my father remarried, and I am really upset. Not because he [...]

  • Advice

    Posted on October 20th, 2009

    Written by Judy

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    New Wife — Not New Mother

    Dear Judy,
    We’re all adults — not children, but our question probably sounds ridiculous, which is why all 3 of us are writing you. Our mother died 2 years ago. Our father remarried (we thought a bit hastily..) last year.
    She’s nice enough. A widow herself, with a grown son. In any social situation, though, she refers [...]