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    Posted on February 13th, 2009

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    He’s Dead–Why Can’t I Go to the Funeral?

    Dear Judy,
    Please don’t use my real name or anything similar to my name. I live in a medium-sized town in the South and everyone here gossips. My problem is the man I’ve been quietly seeing for 2 years died suddenly (thrombosis). It was a big shock, not just to me, but to everyone here.
     His funeral is [...]

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    Posted on December 10th, 2008

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    Thrombosis — Quick Death Isn’t “Merciful”

    Dear Judy,
    My husband died just 3 weeks ago of thrombosis. It was sudden, unexpected, and awful.
    But almost as bad is what I have to put up with now that he’s gone: practically every partner in his law firm has told me in one way or another that his death was “merciful” because it was quick. [...]