• Advice

    Posted on April 16th, 2009

    Written by Judy

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    The Rat is Dead: Can I Celebrate?

    Dear Judy,
    The guy I lived with for four years and the father of my son who is just 2, ended up in jail. I was really upset at the time, but since then I’ve been getting a lot of therapy. You wouldn’t think a person (me) could love a guy who beat her up pretty [...]

  • Advice

    Posted on August 18th, 2008

    Written by Judy

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    My Husband and My Ex

    Dear Judy,
    I’m  married to a very good guy, and I can’t say that was always the case. Ten years ago, I left an abusive first husband, who also happens to be the father of my two grown daughters (and the grandfather of our three small grandchildren).
    My ex is dying. My grown daughters visit him frequently, [...]